Expectaions?

"Expect less and accept more"

We advance on our journey only when we face our goal, when we are confident and believe we are going to win out. We tend to live up to our expectations. Sometimes the Problem is just the gap between Expectation & Reality. So either expect less & accept the reality or expect a lot and turn it into the reality. Uncertainty and expectation are the joys of life.

You have only 2 options in life..

1 –> ACCEPT
2 –> CHANGE

So Try to accept what u can’t change,

And

Try to Change what u can’t accept….!

Hate - a Form of Self Love?

The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time. Sometimes we hate what we used to love. The negative situation we experience is meant to help us discover ourselves and what loving unconditionally really means. We think that which we love is unworthy of our love because it has let us down greatly in some way or another. We feel like withdrawing all our love and give it to somewhere else that is more worthy to receive.
 Hate is an emotion that is meant to be used as an aggressive defense against any form of evil. It is a destructive force against anything that is destructive towards you. When you feel hate or anger, it just means that someone is doing something that hurts you. It is a form of self love that seeks to protect you and severe anything that isn’t beneficial for you. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel because your emotions serve as a feedback and motivating force to move towards that which is good in life.
It is when you understand what your emotions are telling you, and the reason why you feel that way, that enables you to truly resolve everything in your inner world. The reason why you feel hate and anger is because the person is doing something that hurts you. Your love for yourself repels against such an act. So, "Your attitude is an expression of your values, beliefs and expectations."

A Joke explaining a bitter reality.

Bush & Obama were Sitting in a Bar.

A Guy Asks: What are you planning?

Bush: Planning World War III.

Guy: Really?

Whats Going to Happen?

Bush: Well!
This time We Are Going To Kill 140 Million Muslims And KATRINA KAIF.

Guy: katrina kaif? Why To Kill katrina?

Bush Turns To Obama And Says:
“See, I Told You No One Would Worry About 140 Million Muslims”!

My Expectations 

Everyone in this world posses some expectation. Parents expect their children to help them in their old-age, Children expect love from parents, Friends expect  trust and spouse expect loyalty. Like everyone I do have some expectations like to be trusted and to be loved. It's Like if I trust you or love you then the other person must return the same for me. Life is filled with expectations. I Built them knowingly or unknowingly. If they are fulfilled well and good and if not I let it go. Expectations and dreams are interconnected and virual i.e., unreal. So one should not worry much. I think we should not stop ourselves from dreaming and expecting and turning things into reality.

Acceptance is the key

We will always tend to fulfill our own expectation of ourselves. What was really needed was a fundamental change in our attitude toward life. We had to learn ourselves and, furthermore, we had to teach the despairing men, that it did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. What we anticipate seldom occurs, what we least expected generally happens. What we see depends mainly on what we look for. You have to expect things of yourselves before you can do them.Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy. We usually get what we anticipate. So,  it"s time to accept the reality. If you can't accept then try to change the wrong part or the difficult one. But keep trying maybe you might get success or you might learn a good lesson. For any change you have to accept that something beyond expectation. I don't say that you don't expect anything. I can't stop my expectations nor you. It's human tendency. Keep expecting but you have to work on it and your hardwork and patience will surely get you a good result which you can easily accept.":)